Yesterday I was buying a sandwich at a local restaurant and
I noticed that the young lady at the counter was drinking one of those energy
drinks. I asked her if she liked it. She told me “not really” but I need it to
get through the morning. She added “I know it’s not good for me” and explained
how she knows she needs more sleep.
The discussion that followed was about having a hard time
getting to sleep at night because she is addicted to her computer and smart
phone. I asked her if she ever turns the phone off. She hung her head and said
“no”. Then she proceeded to tell me about her last weekend on Catalina
Island where she couldn’t get a signal. She said at first she
panicked and then spent the next few hours agitated. Since she didn’t shut the
phone off the battery ran down trying to get a signal and it went dead. She
panicked again realizing she didn’t know the time without it, and because she
no longer memorized telephone numbers and relied on the smart phone to keep
them for her. She said she felt a bit stranded and helpless.
I am wondering if our dependence or even addiction to these
new devices poses both a physical and mental health risk. Some clinicians think
the answer is a resounding “YES”.
We often define an addiction as anything that we are not able
to say “no” to, but rather feel at the mercy of its power to control us.
Does the smart phone meet that criterion in your life? Has
it become a ‘new century’ security blanket? Most folks I see walking around Beverly Hills have their
phone in their hand, even if they are not looking at it (most are). I often see
people in church doing the same thing.
Are we actually becoming more and more isolated while having
the illusion of being connected? People will become irritated if interrupted
while texting, eschewing a live connection in favor of a digital one. I wonder
how many parents are reluctant to ask their kids to turn off their devices (Xboxes
included) and have face-to-face interaction because they are unwilling to turn
theirs off as well. Or are the kids so addicted that they become hostile and disrespectful
when asked to do so.
These new devices have added real benefits to our lives when
we are able to control them. But when we cannot, they become a new form of idolatry
and enslavement.
How about a spiritual fast where we leave these things off
for a period of time and connect with God instead?
Working at the store, I make fun (to myself) of all the people, by themselves, having conversations. Making business deals, asking what they should buy for aunt Mary, "how dare he do something so inappropriate" doctors "concurring" on diagnosis and treatment. Many times the myself and the world around them appears to be invisible outside their conversation. I'm on my way to work for 4 hours, two miles from home and wondering if I should go back home because I forgot my phone. Silly.
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